Written by Malinda Seneviratne
Gatherings of old friends is always nice, even if what occasioned the meeting happened to be something as somber and sad as a funeral.ƒÆ’-¡ƒ”š‚ My friend Janaka PereraƒÆ’‚¢ƒ¢-¡‚¬ƒ¢-¾‚¢s father passed away last Saturday and as is often the case when someone close to someone close dies, close-people drop by, commiserate and help in whatever ways possible.ƒÆ’-¡ƒ”š‚
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There were lots of school friends whoƒÆ’‚¢ƒ¢-¡‚¬ƒ¢-¾‚¢ve known each other for more than forty years and some who I hadnƒÆ’‚¢ƒ¢-¡‚¬ƒ¢-¾‚¢t met in decades.ƒÆ’-¡ƒ”š‚ Time passes, the world moves and when we move out of classroom and school to scatter like so much pollen in the winds of our aspirations and the water-movement of our circumstances.ƒÆ’-¡ƒ”š‚ Saturday night was for reminiscing.ƒÆ’-¡ƒ”š‚ Sunday night was also for reminiscing and of course chit-chat about random topics, re-telling of old jokes, political discussions, and the aa-giya (coming-going, literally and metaphorically) thorathuru or news of post-school lives.ƒÆ’-¡ƒ”š‚
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Sandwiched between night and night was a long morning and afternoon.ƒÆ’-¡ƒ”š‚ It was one of those annual events that I attend every 4-5 years or so: the inter-batch 6-a-side cricket tournament for old boys of my school. ƒÆ’-¡ƒ”š‚ There were two categories, Under 40 and Over 40.ƒÆ’-¡ƒ”š‚ Our batch had won both events on numerous occasions, but this was not our day; we were knocked out in the first round itself. ƒÆ’-¡ƒ”š‚ This didnƒÆ’‚¢ƒ¢-¡‚¬ƒ¢-¾‚¢t dent the enthusiasm. In fact it only enabled more revelry outside the boundary line.ƒÆ’-¡ƒ”š‚
I got there rather late in the day but was privileged to watch the semi-finals and the final.ƒÆ’-¡ƒ”š‚ I believe the Group ofƒÆ’-¡ƒ”š‚ 2001 won the Under 40 event.ƒÆ’-¡ƒ”š‚ The ƒÆ’‚¢ƒ¢-¡‚¬ƒ¢-¾‚¢88 Group won the Over 40 version, I believe for the 3rd successive year.ƒÆ’-¡ƒ”š‚ To my mind, however, it was the Group of 72 that won it all.ƒÆ’-¡ƒ”š‚ More than ten years younger than the eventual winners, they saw off younger and clearly fitter teams in the earlier stages by sheer determination and team spirit.ƒÆ’-¡ƒ”š‚ They were bludgeoned in the finals and yet held their heads high.ƒÆ’-¡ƒ”š‚
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In an event made for big hitters and wicket-takers (I saw some batsmen hitting 3-4 sixers an over and a bowler who took a hat-trick), it was a fielder who impressed me most.ƒÆ’-¡ƒ”š‚ Susil Ranasinghe, was ragged by some exquisite batsmanship.ƒÆ’-¡ƒ”š‚ He was fielding at the cover boundary and had to cover about 40% of the field.ƒÆ’-¡ƒ”š‚ A late cut would send him scurrying to the fine leg fence.ƒÆ’-¡ƒ”š‚ The next would be a scintillating cover drive that took him half way to the long off end of the field.ƒÆ’-¡ƒ”š‚ The next would be another late-cut.ƒÆ’-¡ƒ”š‚ These shots were so well timed that Susil couldnƒÆ’‚¢ƒ¢-¡‚¬ƒ¢-¾‚¢t save any of them.ƒÆ’-¡ƒ”š‚ And yet, he fought ball and speed and of course age to give it all he had.ƒÆ’-¡ƒ”š‚ He was, for me, the man of the tournament.
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And so they lost.ƒÆ’-¡ƒ”š‚ They congratulated the winners and came off the field faces flushed and full of smiles.ƒÆ’-¡ƒ”š‚ They mingled with batchmates and schoolmates from their time and other eras.ƒÆ’-¡ƒ”š‚ And Udaya Abeysekera sang.ƒÆ’-¡ƒ”š‚ He sang RookanthaƒÆ’‚¢ƒ¢-¡‚¬ƒ¢-¾‚¢s ƒÆ’‚¢ƒ¢-¡‚¬ƒ¢-¾‚¢As deka piyaana nidaa ganna mata baeƒÆ’‚¢ƒ¢-¡‚¬ƒ¢-¾‚¢ (I cannot close my eyes and fall asleep), JothipalaƒÆ’‚¢ƒ¢-¡‚¬ƒ¢-¾‚¢s ƒÆ’‚¢ƒ¢-¡‚¬ƒ”¹…”Kothenaka hitiyathƒÆ’‚¢ƒ¢-¡‚¬ƒ”š‚¦ƒÆ’‚¢ƒ¢-¡‚¬ƒ¢-¾‚¢ (Wherever you may go) and Milton MallawaarachchiƒÆ’‚¢ƒ¢-¡‚¬ƒ¢-¾‚¢s ƒÆ’‚¢ƒ¢-¡‚¬ƒ”¹…”Avasara netha mataƒÆ’‚¢ƒ¢-¡‚¬ƒ¢-¾‚¢ (I donƒÆ’‚¢ƒ¢-¡‚¬ƒ¢-¾‚¢t have the rightƒÆ’‚¢ƒ¢-¡‚¬ƒ”š‚¦).ƒÆ’-¡ƒ”š‚ Beautifully rendered.ƒÆ’-¡ƒ”š‚ No, I didnƒÆ’‚¢ƒ¢-¡‚¬ƒ¢-¾‚¢t think he has missed his true vocation.ƒÆ’-¡ƒ”š‚ It was as it should be.ƒÆ’-¡ƒ”š‚ The right thing for the right moment.ƒÆ’-¡ƒ”š‚
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I am not saying that the winners lacked spirit or were underserving of trophy, but there was something gentle, giving and just-being about the ƒÆ’‚¢ƒ¢-¡‚¬ƒ¢-¾‚¢72 Group that touched; a kind of wrapping paper to a gift that was being accepted after many years.ƒÆ’-¡ƒ”š‚
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Was it all about the particular school?ƒÆ’-¡ƒ”š‚ I donƒÆ’‚¢ƒ¢-¡‚¬ƒ¢-¾‚¢t think so.ƒÆ’-¡ƒ”š‚ All intersections move us, although in different ways.ƒÆ’-¡ƒ”š‚ It was a kind of re-birthing of memory and times gone by.ƒÆ’-¡ƒ”š‚ And through it all, I remembered Janaka and the fracture he suffered from which he wonƒÆ’‚¢ƒ¢-¡‚¬ƒ¢-¾‚¢t recover easily.ƒÆ’-¡ƒ”š‚
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It was a strange weekend, all things considered.ƒÆ’-¡ƒ”š‚ ƒÆ’-¡ƒ”š‚ We are nothing, alone, I realized.ƒÆ’-¡ƒ”š‚ And we can be so much, together, I also felt.ƒÆ’-¡ƒ”š‚
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